I wonder how plain housewives feel.
I work and earn money but since my husband is earning much much more than I am, I have been feeling a bit inadequate lately.
Somehow, it seems that what I earn is just loose change compared to what he earns and since I pay for my insurance and my son's education,small bills like our landline and internet, it seems that what I earn has no value at all. One minute it's there, and then after buying some grocery items, one or two trips to McDonald's, it's gone, just like that... in just a blink of an eye.
Then comes the time when it's gone and there are things I need to buy for myself, or for my son, it's just so shameful that I have to ask.
I wonder if there's anyone out there who feels the same way as I do.
I do. Every thing you said he applies to me. And I don't feel ashamed asking from Hubs. We shared responsibilities and that includes sharing money.
ReplyDeletebut I feel as if I have nothing to share or what I have left to share has little value. A big chunk of what I earn goes to my son who isnt biologically his...so nahiya talaga ako.
ReplyDeleteI understand. Don`t worry I think he loves you enough to understand you. Every thing he owns are yours too. Be comfortable with it. Thing is, baka naninibago ka pa.
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